Preheat your air fryer to 400°F (200°C) if your model requires preheating.
Pull the white tendon out of each of the 1½ pounds chicken tenders. Grip the end with a paper towel, hold the meat down with a fork, and pull.
In a shallow dish, combine the 1 cup all purpose flour, salt and pepper to taste, ½ teaspoon garlic powder, ½ teaspoon onion powder, and ½ teaspoon smoked paprika. Beat the 2 large eggs in a second shallow dish. Place the 1 cup breadcrumbs in a third.
Dredge each tender in the flour mixture, shaking off the excess. Dip it into the beaten eggs, then into the breadcrumbs, pressing gently so they stick.
Arrange the breaded tenders in a single layer in the air fryer basket, leaving space between them so they aren't touching. Cook in batches if needed. Spray them lightly and evenly with cooking spray.
Cook at 400°F (200°C) for 8 to 10 minutes, flipping halfway through, until golden and an instant read thermometer reads 165°F (74°C). Start checking at 8 minutes.
While the tenders cook, whisk the ½ cup BBQ sauce, ¼ cup honey, 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar, ½ teaspoon garlic powder, and ½ teaspoon onion powder together in a small saucepan over low heat. Cook 5 to 6 minutes, stirring occasionally, until slightly thickened.
Choose how to sauce them. Toss the tenders in the sauce for a sticky coating and serve immediately, or serve the sauce on the side for dipping so they stay crisp. For both, brush the sauce onto the tenders and return them to the air fryer at 400°F for 1 to 2 minutes to set the glaze.